Happiness – Is it a Project ?

I had the same question in my mind when I came across this book, “Happiness Project” written by Gretchen Rubin.

Like anyone, I also thought that “Being Happy” is something internal , something that cannot be learnt or taught. I decided to give it a try and all I can say is that Gretchen has done a beautiful job of narrating simple but effective steps to remove clutter from the mind and focus on what is most important and excel in those activities.

At the very beginning  of the book, she mentions an epiphany she had. “The days are long, but the years are short,” she realised. “Time is passing, and I’m not focusing enough on the things that really matter.” At that moment, she decided to dedicate a year to her happiness project.

Isn’t this a familiar situation for you too ?

I liked the twelve commandments mentioned in the book as a  simple but effective way to start having the right mindset to continue reading the book.

TWELVE COMMANDMENTS:

  1. Be Gretchen ( Aka be yourself)
  2. Let it go
  3. Act the way I want to feel
  4. Do it now
  5. Be polite and be fair
  6. Enjoy the process
  7. Spend out
  8. Identify the problem
  9. Lighten up
  10. Do what ought to be done
  11. No calculation
  12. There is only love

The remainder of the book are the chronicles of her experiments over the twelve months and treating happiness as a project with different resolutions each month about various aspects of life. She touches upon these topics with actions relating to each of aspects and her sharing as a result:  Vitality, Marriage, Work, Parenthood, Leisure, Friendship, Money, Eternity, Books, Mindfulness, Attitude, and Happiness. I would not say that each of her experiments would work on everyone; however it would definitely rekindle your mind and start taking baby steps for a few of the aspects one finds suitable. I should say that I had a long time plan of writing blogs but just did not have the right mindset. By reading this book, I have finally broken the shackles and here I am. At the least, this book will remind us of all of the little things in life we may be overlooking, and to not turn our cheeks to certain situations that can allow us to grow as a person.

Some of the quotes from the books that intrigued me were…

“One of the best ways to make yourself happy is to make other people happy. One of the best ways to make other people happy is to be happy yourself.”

“What you do every day matters more than what you do once in a while.”

“When I find myself focusing overmuch on the anticipated future happiness of arriving at a certain goal, I remind myself to ‘Enjoy now’. If I can enjoy the present, I don’t need to count on the happiness that is (or isn’t) waiting for me in the future.”

” Happiness comes not from having more, not from having less, but from wanting what you have”

“You can choose what you do, but you can’t choose what you like to do”

As a take away from this book, I am trying to follow this for my own happiness project.

  • Reflect on what makes me happy, plus what puts me in a bad mood.
  • Think of specific, concrete actions that improve my happiness and build on that
  • Continue my journey to understand human nature and how I can influence lives of people who want their voice to be heard, provide some testimonies of my journey and mutually benefit to make our lives happier, healthier, more creative and productive.
As an after effect, I have book marked her site and signed up for newsletter. I feel I have some qualities like her and hope to continue my journey with her guidance. I also plan to reach out to her to share mutual learnings and get influenced.

 

Finding your passion and living passionately.

Finding your own passion is the fundamental gauge by which one can find out why we have come into this world. Googling the definition we get multiple meanings :  it means a strong feeling or emotion , an object of someone’s love, a strong liking or desire. Ikigai is a Japanese concept referring to being passionate and something that gives a person a sense of purpose, a reason for living.
 
Ironically, asking a lot of people about what their passion is, we don’t get a good answer and people struggle to tell what they are really passionate about.
 
Luckiest are the people who find their passion right at an early age, excel at it and then make their career out of it. Most of the people in entertainment business or sports belong to this category. This is an ideal condition and monetizing your passion is the best thing that can happen to anyone.
 
When we ask this question to kids these days, the most common answer we receive and observe is that they love mobile phones and the internet and I am sure this would be the common answer for a lot of adults too, considering this current world of social media and entertainment.
 
Finding your passion starts at an early age as a kid however, as an asian parent myself, we usually tend to force our inhibitions onto our children without trying to find out what our children want to do (finding their passion) and this can lead to children just doing things because the parents asked them  to do. For example, parents may send their children to umpteen private coaching classes and if we are lucky, the child may find something that interests him or her and end up excelling in that and would want to make a career out of this passion. For these lucky children, if they start spending more time on their discovered passion, the next problem comes when the parents then would encourage them to focus on studies and thereby resulting in the children not able to follow their passion.
 
Most of us then end up taking up a career that would just make us earn money and support our families without trying to pursue what we actually would love to do. There are some people who get bored from mundane life and a sudden awakening would make them realize that they are born to do something else and they start following this newly discovered passion and their life changes dramatically. It could be a part time endeavour that could give them a necessary balance and happiness but will surely give them a purpose in life as they grow older towards retirement. Among these are some that join a mission towards creating a better world.
 
There is the last category of people who are unfortunately not able to find the passion and take the life as it comes and my suggestion to them  is to read this blog which may guide you to ponder on some ideas and take that first step towards doing what you love and love what you do and monetizing your passion. 

Service Delivery: Moving forward towards the past

I started my career as a mainframe engineer as a resident engineer at the customer data center providing 24×7 support. Those days were of centralized computing and the mainframe was the single point of failure for the organization and hence the engineers supporting them had to be on their toes, should there be any outage. We couldn’t do without having engineers onsite, keeping spares onsite and have an escalation path to ensure system stays up as there would be many people who would have to sit idle if there was any outage. Customer service /satisfaction depended on the up-time, how knowledgeable the engineer who managed the systems was and the escalation efficiency. From customer management perspective, there was a team dedicated to serve this customer who managed day to day activities.

We then moved towards distributed computing where the mainframes got replaced by client/server architecture (LAN, minis / mid-range systems). Delivery model also transformed to match the distributed nature of the support. Engineers could sit in office and visit multiple customers in a single day. Customer service / satisfaction depended on transactions (service requests) , rather than holistic view of the complete service delivery since the impact of the issues wasn’t significant and there would only be partial outage as seen holistically.

With the cloud computing, we are again moving back to the consolidated (converged) infrastructure where data centers are being consolidated into one big data center which houses all the infrastructure to set up the cloud. As we take huge strides towards this model, we are moving back to the good old centralized computing days but with a difference. From customer management perspective, we are again going towards the old model where we have a dedicated team that will need to take care of the customer.

The difference in this new model which we are heading towards is that there are more challenges due to the changes in requirements and onus is again going to find people who would have both technical and soft skills to be able to manage the customer pressure during the times of outages. The support personnel will need to acquire skills from multiple technical domains to understand the big picture of the cloud solution.

Note: While cloud computing is the buzz word, I agree that there will always be a legacy of client/server computing left, as we still have mid-range systems and mainframes around.

Customer Service: Do you have it in you?

A lot has been said and read on good customer service and the impact it has on profitability and customer loyalty. We come across at least a few occasions everyday in our day to day life where we have to interact with a customer service person. How does one experience differ from the other ? Is it the service that catches your attention or is it the person who serves you that leaves a mark on you , or is it both ?

I have been in the customer service business for 24+ years and have been directly and currently indirectly providing customer service. Coming out fresh from the engineering college, my first job was a memorable one, that not only exposed me to harsh realities of life but also gave me a reality check that I should now forget my good old college days. By direct, I mean that earlier I was a customer facing engineer and in my later role, I was providing remote support to our global customers.

I joined a third party maintenance company who was providing on site support for the mainframe customers. The mainframe computers those days were primarily from IBM, Unisys, DEC and were gigantic in size with removable disk pack drives, vacuum column tape drives, punch card machines and line printers. The customer I was asked to go was one of those with Burroughs mainframe and in the business of power generation and supply. The center were I was placed was the 24×7 data center and I was an on the job trainee with a senior engineer placed on the site. The first few days were just reading the manuals and watching my senior on how to troubleshoot problems.

I remember that it was hardly a week or so and as usual being very enthusiastic, I reached the customer place on or before my usual time (9 am) and read the manuals and I was interrupted by an operator asking me to check a printer who had stopped printing. My heart started to pound as it was my very first call that I was supposed to handle alone. In front of the printer, I was just checking a few basic things and suddenly a hand pulled me away from the printer and asked me to get out of the computer room. Shocked and terrified, I looked at the person doing that and it was the data center manager. He asked his operators not to allow a “fresher” to touch his expensive equipment and asked me to stay away from the data center till the senior engineer comes. Later on, the senior engineer came and took control of the situation and explained to the data center manager that he would mentor and coach me towards servicing the equipment and that he would take utmost care that I wouldn’t touch the equipment until he gives a go.

This episode left me thinking whether I have taken a right decision by taking a career like this. I couldn’t sleep the whole night but finally I decided that I would give my best shot at it and let my work do the talking. From that day, I slogged day and night to learn things and within a year, I could manage the mainframe computer on my own. It was then that the senior engineer left the company and I was given the independent charge of this account. The data center manager was totally at my mercy as we didn’t have any other “expert” who could handle this installation which was running on old and obsolete mainframe. So much so that he fought with my manager to give me promotion or else he would go for another vendor to do support as he relies on me for providing support.

The tables had turned and the person who literally threw me out of his office was fighting for me and was wanting me to continue to serve his data center.

Two things I took as a learning from this experience and my first job.

  1. There is no substitute for hard work and technical competency is needed to resolve the customer problem. These qualities are assumed to be there while taking up any job so I wont be discussing much in this article. We will focus on the 2nd one in depth.
  2. There has to be some kind of determination or the X-factor that a person seeking customer service should have. What is this X-factor or what makes him/her a better customer support person than another? Why does a customer prefers to be serviced by the same person again and again even though the same service can be provided by others.

Well, there are three main ingredients which form the X-factor. These qualities also form the basic building blocks for anyone in customer service.

  1. Empathy
  2. Responsiveness
  3. Attitude

We shall discuss them individually.

1. Empathy.
The book defines empathy as “a capability to share your feelings and understand another’s emotion” (the another person in our context is the customer we want to service). In my example above, my first reaction to the customers hostility was to retaliate but when I put myself into his shoes that night, I realized that he was probably right and at that time, I had to empathize with him to realize where he was coming from. This is customer service is an acquired art and will come through experience. Only that one should be patient and should have a desire to help.

2. Responsiveness.
What does the customer want ?

To answer a few of these questions, here is a list of some minimum things that a customer would expect and various surveys that were done also confirm this.

  • The customer needs someone to listen to his problem and help him.
  • Someone to keep following up with him on the same problem without him having to keep calling support line again and again.
  • He would like to be heard by the same person so that he wouldn’t have to repeat his problem again and again.

One word which would cover all the 3 points above is “Responsiveness”. This is the number one quality and a must for all those who are already in customer services or are aspiring to be one.
Some questions to ask whether you have this in you.

  • Do you check and respond to all your mails on time? (Time management).
  • Does someone have to remind you again to do the needful?
  • Do you stick to your commitments ? (to call the customer once you have committed that you will call, no matter if you have a solution ready for him yet or no)

If you have this in you or are committed to build this quality this would go a big way in coming out winner. If you lack this quality, then again it is an acquired art and should try to build this capability and see how it can create wonders for you.

3. Attitude
Other thing that is important and makes one a better customer customer service person is “Attitude”. Having the right or wrong attitude in all the career options may need to have different qualities. In relation to customer service, ask these questions to see if you have this quality.

  • Do you try to offer help the customer and direct him to the right place even if it doesn’t lie in your area and follow up with the appropriate person?
  • Are you motivated to come to office every morning and keen to talk to new customers, new problems ?
  • Do you constantly see anyways that you can make the customers be more satisfied and pursue that with your management ? Example: A process enhancement which would prevent the customer to be kept on hold for a long time.
  • Do you keep your cool even when you know the customer is wrong and is persisting ?
  • Are you an avid listener?

A note about “technical competency” which is thought by most people as the only thing needed to serve the customers. I feel that and as I mentioned earlier, although it is needed, I consider that this is something everyone should have at a reasonable level. However, the above qualities will ultimately differentiate a good customer service versus an mediocre service. In reality, the customer hardly cares whether you are too senior, too technical and have more in depth knowledge. All he wants someone to help him to solve his problem or get him to the right person who can do so.

I have tried this myself and have tried to influence my colleagues, managers and business partners and am sure they would have been benefited. In my current role as a manager, I have tried to mentor my team with these qualities. Once a person listens to the customer with empathy, is responsive , has the right attitude and is technically competent, he/she can start seeing the results in form of customer appreciations via the feedback programs which give a great feeling of “satisfaction” and motivates him/her to do even more.

Now come to the last thing I want to discuss and something for the people who already have the above qualities and are practicing the same and willing to take it to the next step i.e. the customer wanting to be served by you again and again. Here are some suggestions that will help you go beyond what is needed but will add value in serving the customers.

  • For a problem that they are solving for the customer, even if he/she is not on duty, continues to follow up on the issue and ensures that the issue is being progressing well.
  • Asks for continuous feedback on how he can improve, looks on for opportunities to give a better experience to the customer.
  • Collaborates with other teams in order to get the issue fixed for the customer and also provide feedback to the management on improving service to customers.
  • Documenting and creating knowledge for others to use if they encounter similar problem.

Changing Trends in IT and its impact on Customer Satisfaction

Customer Satisfaction was considered an effective method of measuring how a company provides service and a direct outcome of good customer service is loyal customers and repeat business. For customers, it was increased in their own profits and up-time of their equipment.

IT industry has changed over the period due to the change in delivery of service to the customers. These days we talk of Cloud OfferingsAutomationAutomatic service request generation and management etc that have impacted the way we serve our customers. All these have added significant amount of complexities in the way we used to manage customers traditionally in the IT industry.

Cloud Computing has converged the infrastructure into compute, network and storage components which could mean multiple levels of collaboration and touch points within the service requests. The customer could now experience varied level of service depending on the complexities of the problem. This could cause a very significant impact of customer satisfaction experience.

Automation has added another level of complexity as now the service request could now be processed without any human contact and service requests could see machine updated “templates” v/s personalized message.

Since traditional customer satisfaction depends on personal touch and hopefully single point of contact who could “own” the customer problem and provides, it would be an interesting to see how these new trends come to play and impact customer satisfaction.

Being in the customer service business for over 30+ years and very passionate about the same,  I would be watching this area closely and see how best I can contribute to ensure we continue to provide the best customer experience to our customers.

My Trips – Himalayas Aug 2012

August 2012 was one of the most memorable period as we embarked upon a mesmerising journey to the Himalayas. It all started with 2 of us who wanted some adventure and decided to go to Leh Ladakh region in the Himalayas. Little did we know that from 2 of us, we grew to 9 in no time and totally unsure of what is in store, we took the leap of faith and this happens to be one of the most thrilling and fun-filled trip where we made new friends, came so close to mother nature and most importantly made so many new memories.

To be Continued….